Wednesday, September 11, 2013

The Lowe Family Newsletter Volume 87

THE LOWE FAMILY NEWSLETTER VOLUME 87 SEPTEMBER 2013

Dear Readers,

August started off with gloriously cool summer days and ended with horrible heat and humidity. As usual my weeds have thrived, while I and my plants have wilted.

My children are spreading their wings and flying off in different directions leaving behind this broody old hen. Sean is currently in New Zealand and reading his blog is very enlightening – I had no idea that his ego was so big, his effect on women so amazing or that he had some interesting body parts that I failed to notice during diaper changes. The photo's are amazing and I am so glad that I get to read about his exploits – white water rafting, flying a stunt plane, bungee jumping etc- after he has survived the experience. I read your dad a somewhat edited version. But I highly recommend the blog to those of my readers who have a broad mind, a sense of humor and an appreciation of good writing.

I received an amazing email a couple of weeks ago from Kay – she asked if she could cook Sunday lunch for the family ! Furthermore she undertook to shop for all the necessary ingredients to make this meal! This was an unbelievable offer so I was thrilled to accept it : what a glorious sight to see her coming through our front door with bags of groceries for a three course meal! She even made her own salad dressing from scratch. After our delicious salad and pasta lunch with cookies for dessert she insisted on helping clean everything up! Quite a contrast to some other family members who only ever ask what I'm planning on making them and when it might be ready for them to eat- then they dash off to the gym leaving me to clean up the kitchen and dishes. Only today Coryn put in an order for three home baked desserts for a back yard get together that she and Jeremy are throwing for some other young couples this weekend. I pointed out that it was a bit much to expect me to bake in this heat for a party I wasn't even invited to but she promptly said I was welcome to come if I wanted to play beer pong and besides by Friday ( her pick-up of my baked goods day) it would be cooler so I should be fine in the kitchen with my double ovens going all day! I declined her invitation to play beer pong but agreed to make her desserts. At least I'll get to see Ava Claire that day!

Bryn announced a couple of weeks ago that Black and Veatch had offered him a promotion and transfer to San Ramos in the bay area close to Oakland and San Francisco. Last week he flew out to check it out and found an apartment in Walnut Creek, close to shopping, night life, jogging trails and the Bart system. He has sold most of his household items but unfortunately not his house. He is going to hand it over to a property management company in hopes that they can rent it out for him. He plans to drive his car, loaded with his clothes, some electronics and an air mattress to his new home which will probably take two to three days. He plans on leaving the day after Leslee-Ann arrives for her visit on the nineteenth of this month.

When Sean left on his extended trip, Josh moved from the “Seando” to Bryn's but his brother's unexpected job move left him homeless so I thought he might move in with us or Coryn and Jeremy but he chose to move into the basement of a friend. He will finish his current job in December and then plans to meet Sean in Thailand, possibly to be joined by Leslee-Ann, Craig and Bryn if their work schedules permit.

Ming-Lee has been in flight school all summer learning to fly a new plane for Fed-Ex. Hopefully he will soon be finished and able to spend more time with his family. Lori and the kids have had a great summer despite Ming's absence, although he did manage to make it home for a couple of days here and there. He will now be flying internationally so will have a chance to explore more of the world on his down time. This should be an exciting experience for Ming who loves to try new things and now that Blake and Claudia are older it will be easier to cope with his frequent absences.

Ava Claire is a happy, healthy baby but unfortunately something her milk supplier is eating is causing her to have gassy and explosive poop – during one diaper change I was showered in poop and had to completely change my clothes, scrub myself and my carpet. She is even passing a little blood in her poop so the pediatrician suggested that Coryn eliminate all diary from her diet and put Ava Claire on a milk free formula for a week or so before returning to nursing. I thought this a ridiculous suggestion but tried to be supportive. I was very pleased that my grand daughter refused to take a sip of the chemical junk (my terminology for baby formula) so instead of pumping her milk Coryn is still nursing but eating a very restricted diet. It does not seem to have helped much yet so she is now thinking that melons may be the cause as a couple of family members have allergies to one or another of these fruits. Sometimes I wonder if any one in the medical profession has any hands on experience. Nursing babies often will not drink from a bottle and if one does succeed in getting them to do so after a few days they will not be interested in breastfeeding anymore. I say keep the boobies flowing and Ava Claire growing. I am sure she will grow out of the problem as her system matures. She has already doubled her birth weight and is definitely a full figured girl!

Last Saturday I was able to enjoy a carefree shopping outing thanks to a hospice volunteer, Mike, who has signed on to stay with Norm for an hour or two every other Saturday. This is such a blessing as we are going to be losing all three boys help very soon. I usually only run errands when I am fairly certain that your dad will sleep the whole time or be engrossed in an NCIS episode.

Norm continues to have his esophageal spasms while eating so we have a couple of other medicines
added to our arsenal to combat this problem – they are in liquid form and can be placed anywhere in the mouth to help with the secretions and panic sensations. He continues to have daily bleeding due to his prostate cancer but fortunately it has not worsened over the last few months. But despite all his health issues he remains in good spirits especially when Coryn, Kay and Ava Claire visit.

Kay was a little concerned during her first few weeks of teaching that her very small class size might result in her class being split between the two other first grade teachers and her being transferred to another school. Since she liked the staff and was comfortable with first graders she was not looking forward to having to start afresh in another school but fortunately everything worked out. A fifth grade teacher volunteered to transfer and one of the other first grade teachers was assigned to the fifth grade class leaving Kay with her original class plus a few more kids. Kay seems to be adjusting well to life in Kansas City although she elected to skip out on watching the Chiefs defeat the Jaguars on Sunday after lunch. I of course am thrilled that we are back to Football Sundays and will be coaching the team to the playoffs this year!

Ming-Jon has moved to North Bethesda to cut his expenses while he continues to look for another job. Hopefully something will happen for him soon. Don't forget to send out your new address Ming-Jon! You never know when Marc might want to mail you something!

Your dad and I have enjoyed watching the US Open Tennis matches this past week and every time they showed the spectators I looked for Lainee who was there a couple of days during her recent trip to New York. Time for me to rally and serve your dad's noodle lunch, love your always on the ball Mother.