Sunday, February 16, 2020


THE LOWE FAMILY NEWSLETTER: VOLUME 133 FEBRUARY 2020



Dear Readers,

Since the start of the New Year I have been busier than ever with my grandchildren. There have been snow days, days when Lee Summit schools have been closed but not Blue Valley, and too many days that Emmy Lou has been battling recurrent ear infections! Grandma's daycare has been operating five days a week sometimes! Just be glad that my diet and exercise plan seems to be working for me children! This body has not been worn out by exercising or deprived of a delicious calorie. I seem to be in fine fettle! Maybe you should all consider giving up your gym memberships, protein shakes and organic groceries!

We have had a cold, snowy, icy winter but I was determined to make a trip back to Indianapolis and found a window of opportunity on Thursday, January 23rd – coincidentally Sean's 32nd birthday-. We had freezing rain the day before and more was forecast for the weekend with snow . I decided to go for it when I got up early Thursday morning as I knew that once I made it to St Louis the temperatures would be above freezing making the roads safer. I hoped the road crews had done a good job as I headed off to I70 E! I texted Ming and Lori to let them know I was coming and Coryn who was planning on flying out that night and driving back with me on Sunday. Fortunately the roads were fine, despite having to drive in rain and drizzle for most of the way! I had to make a couple of stops, once too pee, and then for gas and food but I ate as I drove so wasted little time! I did arrive during rush hour again but it wasn't as bad as the traffic is here!

I was happy to see Ming-Lee looking so good : amazed by the amount of food he was eating and his high energy level after completing his second round of radiation treatments just that week. Ming's strength in the face of such adversity is awe inspiring! After supper we gathered around the dinning room table and started to put a jig saw puzzle together, another Lowe family favorite activity!

Claudia joined us later in the evening after a theater event at school, bumping Lori out of her seat as she took over her spot! This is a competitive family! Coryn arrived about 11:00 pm after taking an Uber ride from the airport. She had worn a face mask on the plane and car ride as Ming-Lee had very low blood counts meaning his immune system would have a hard time fighting off germs.

The next morning I missed Claudia – Lori had taken her to the airport as she was flying to Dallas with her Karate team to compete in a meet that weekend. She won two firsts! Her medals are quite spectacular! Mother would not have won a medal for being first one up that morning! I slept until about 10:00 am and found only Coryn at home as Lori was driving back from the airport and Ming was out on a walk in the drizzle. Mother drank three cups of coffee and ate a blueberry muffin thoughtfully provided by Lori who knows I am not a healthy cereal and fruit eater!


That day Ming and Lori taught us how to play Mahjong which seemed incredibly complicated when they started explaining the game but fortunately after a couple of hours I caught on and actually found it enjoyable! Another new skill learned! I was very impressed with the tile holders that Ming had made to help facilitate the setting up and playing of the game. He is so good at figuring out how to shape a piece of wood into something attractive and practical.

The next day Lori and Coryn decided to work out with Denise Austin on the big screen, while Ming was on the treadmill. Mother was on the sofa with a cup of coffee exercising her brain playing words with friends on her Ipad Later that morning we bundled up against the cold and headed out into the falling snow to walk the trails at their nearby state park.
It was practically deserted. Fortunately the trail selected was relatively flat so I was able to keep up with the exercise fanatics! Once home it was time for lunch and more Mahjong! We spent our evenings doing a jigsaw puzzle. watching the DVD of Purdue's Christmas Concert, enjoying picking Blake out when his group was performing, and watched Renee Zellweger in her Oscar winning role as Judy Garland. I swear it took Ming Lee and Coryn longer to decide which streaming service or store rental would be the most economic as it did to watch the movie! Frugality runs in the Lowe children's genes but I would not say it comes from Norm or me!

Sunday morning Coryn and I were up early, ready to head back to Kansas by 8:30am! Ming and Lori insisted on scrapping the snow and ice off my car windows as we headed out into the cold but sunny and dry day. I had hardly driven a mile when something prompted me to ask Coryn to check my purse for my phone. It wasn't there! I pulled over and searched my suitcase in the trunk. Not there either. Coryn called my phone. No sound so I turned around and headed back to Ming's thinking that I had probably left in the kitchen at breakfast. But then a more terrible idea came to me. I had set the alarm on my phone to wake me up that morning and had probably tossed it on the bed as I was getting up and oh dear – I had stripped the sheets and thrown them into the washing machine where they were probably on the spin cycle by now with Coryn's sheets. Coryn let Ming and Lori know we were heading back to look for my phone which might be in the washer. They were pulling out the sheets as I arrived but thankfully no phone! I raced upstairs to check the bedroom but could not see it anywhere but then Lori called it and a muffled ring was heard in the corner of the room where I had thrown the comforter on a chair – with my phone wrapped in it! Much better than having it tangled up in the sheets. On my previous visit Lori had found my nightie in the sheets when she did the laundry!This drama led us to lose some time but we only made two quick stops and made it back to Lee's Summit about three thirty that afternoon, gaining an hour as Indiana does not do daylight savings time. I spent some time with Ava Claire and Owen, glad to see that Jeremy had survived a long weekend with them and headed home for a nice cup of tea.

After a fifty year wait my beloved Kansas City Chiefs won the Super Bowl and I was literally bowled over by their amazing come back in the final seven minutes of the game. I had actually had to tear myself away from the television late in the forth quarter as I was so stressed by our seemingly hopeless situation and was distracting myself with a sewing project but hearing that we had just scored I raced back to the television to catch the replay and watched in amazement as we did the seemingly impossible and won by 11 points! A decisive victory after playing well below expectations for the first three quarters. The whole city was elated and all the schools closed on the following Wednesday so people could attend the huge downtown parade! Mother watched from the warmth and comfort of her couch! I am so looking forward to our next season.

On the Saturday evening prior to the Superbowl game,Kay had picked Coryn and me up for an evening she gifted to us at Christmas before the Chiefs made it to the Superbowl. The Power and Light district was a very busy sea of red bodies! It was not easy to get around as there were lots of road barriers, pedestrians and blocked streets and it took us awhile to find a parking space within walking distance of our dinner restaurant and the Sprint Center where we were going to watch the newest Cirque du Soleil show on ice. We were eating early as the show started at 7:30 so Kay was surprised that the restaurant was heaving at such an early hour. The line for the ladies restroom was out the door – largely held up by some poor girl who had locked herself in a stall and was obviously under the influence of drugs or acholol. Coryn alerted management and a group of people were sent to deal with the situation.

This was not the only drama that evening. Once in our seats to watch Axel, four late comers sat in front of us and proved a huge distraction to our enjoyment by continuously waving their arms in the air and swaying in their seats. Coryn mumbled something about not being able to deal with them and needing to move seats. She insisted there were some empty seats further down but I couldn't make them out in the dark with my aging vision so I tapped the lady on the shoulder and explained that I had come to see the show – not her performance. Unfortunately my words did not deter her bobbing around so I had Coryn lead the way to the empty seats several rows in front of the rude and thoughtless members of an otherwise lovely audience!

Sarah has been to Canada and Los Angeles for work these past two weeks , only being home a couple of nights a week so she is thrilled that her advancing pregnancy should preclude any further work trips. Leslee-Ann was also in Canada for a work trip at about the same time but in a different city. Marc and Leslee-Ann are spending the last weekend in February visiting Ming-Lee and Lori and I plan to visit the following weekend! Road trip with Mother anyone? We are all so grateful to Lori for putting up with us all and can not thank her enough for taking such great care of Ming-Lee! We are all so blessed to have her in our family.

Kay and Richard had a wonderful time in Singapore, Paris and Barcelona and almost as soon as they returned from their honeymoon they decided to put their present home on the market and hopefully move even closer to me! Richard's dad has been doing a lot of the handyman projects needed to get the house ready for market as determined by their Realtor. He has just retired and seems to enjoy fixing up houses which is very fortunate as Richard is not a handy man!

Sean and Sarah are also actively thinking about moving too and plan to meet with their Realtor for suggestions on what needs to be done to their house to make it as marketable as possible and I think they also appreciate the convenience of my location right off all the major interstates! However with a new baby due in a couple of months it may take awhile to get everything done that needs to be! Hopefully Josh will be around for awhile when he returns in April to Kansas City.

Valentines Day has just passed, I was fortunate enough to spend some time on Thursday with Ava Claire and Owen as schools were closed due to the frigid sub zero temps and icy streets. They gave me a cute card and a box of candy which they were ready for me to share before lunch which Coryn had bought over with her for us all. Chicken tacos which the kids turned their noses up at asking me for apple slices, English muffins, peanut butter and of course chocolate milk!While I fixed their lunch Coryn fixed ours. She returned the following day to work from my home while Owen was at preschool as she had the day off. Fortunately I had scheduled a mammogram for that morning that allowed me to be home in time for her to pick up lunch for our Valentine's day celebration and Sean and Emmy Lou stopped by with supper from McDonalds! So fortunate to spend so much time with my family here !

A heartfelt hug and kiss to all my Valentines, big and small. There is nothing I enjoy more than being right in the heart of everything happening in your lives! Love Mother
My little Valentine Callie in an outfit I made for her

My slightly older Valentine in an outfit I made for her